It all started a few years ago when I had a problem. Id been travelling around the world for a couple of years living life with no real concerns and doing a lot of growing up at the same time. I learned a lot of skills that would help me in business for years to come, and Id overcome a lot of personal handicaps at the same time.
For all my newly found self improvement though, I couldnt for the life of me feel comfortable meeting women. They used to make me feel so nervous I could barely utter an intelligible sentence around them.
I could stop anybody on the street and get their name and number and make a business appointment to follow up with whatever it was I wanted to show them at the time, but I couldnt so much as say hi to a girl I felt attracted to.
The number one reason in the world today that men dont approach women they find attractive is their fear of rejection by attractive women.
Weve all had this happen to us before, were walking down the street and we see the kind of woman that makes our head snap back for a double-take. We say to ourselves that she is exactly what we want. We get closer, she gets closer, your palms start to sweat, she gets closer, you do nothing, and then she walks on by.
We dont say anything because if she rejects us, well feel bad about ourselves.
Im going to share with you a technique that has never once failed me. I used to be afraid of approaching attracive women, but since I learned this fool-proof method Ive had amazing success in getting numbers, dates, girlfriends and even now the fiancee of my dreams.
I like to call it the smile test. It comes only after youve mastered the art of eye contact (which Joseph Matthews goes into in great detail - itll blow your mind how powerful it is) and learned to slow your body movements down but in and of itself, its very simple.
All you do is...
When you see a girl walking down the street that you want to talk to, and Im talking any girl here (Ive gotten Famous Actresses/Singers and a Miss World Competitors numbers with this technique) make bold and obvious eye contact with her, put on your biggest smile (like you own the nightclub they just walked into), and if she holds eye contact and smiles back even just for a second...say Hi. Then Pause...Pause...and Pause some more...
If you keep that smile and maintain eye contact, she WILL say Hi back.
From there on out, well, use your imagination.
If she doesnt smile back, shes not open to being opened and you have better things to do. If she smiles back, go for it.
