3 Ways to Get Your Ex Interested Again
By: Erik J. Michaels
Being single again all of a sudden without really having planned on going that way can really suck, to be blunt. If this is the case for you, and you're not quite ready to give up on your relationship with your new ex, then I have some info you may be interested in. There are plenty of great ways to pique your ex's interest in you again, and I'm going to give you 3 of them!
1) One of the things to get your ex's attention and make a few thoughts flutter through his/her head is to not let yourself fall apart. By this I mean...stay hot! Look your absolute best possible, and don't be afraid to advertise it. Keep in shape, max out your hygiene, and dress sharp!
Keeping up your appearance has at least two positive effects. The first is obvious...looking good never hurt anyone's chances for getting attention, as far as I know. The second is because of that...getting attention from other people is going to get attention from your ex. If you hit the clubs, and your ex happens to see you looking good and getting hit on left and right...it's going to push that Interest Button again.
Nine out of ten relationships end because the person leaving the other wasn't getting everything he/she needed. Sometimes that need can even be freedom from a particular nasty habit of his/her partner's, but usually it's something a little more integral. What that means for you is that if your partner left you you've got some work to do on yourself. You're responsible for your ex leaving you, so you need to sit down and figure out exactly what went wrong and more than that how to fix it. Make whatever sacrifices or compromises you deem necessary...but know that skimping on the self-work is just going to make things worse.
Stay active, live life outside of your couch and TV. Hang out with your pals, have fun. It shows a strength to you that your ex may or may not have known existed...and you may not realize how much your ex is probably hurting as well, but seeing you "getting along okay" is a pretty respectable thing in his/her eyes.
3) In my experience, probably the strongest way to revitalize your ex's interest is to have a one-on-one talk with yourself and really commit yourself to making a few changes. I know it's harsh, but if your ex dumped you it's reasonable to assume there was a problem with how you handled the relationship. I can't tell you what that was, because I don't know you or your partner, but you CAN figure out what it was and fix it.
This is a tall order, I know...nobody changes overnight, and it can be hard to do it at all. I've been there myself, I know how hard it is...but it is doable. I promise you, if you make all this effort and make the changes required to stop feeding the problems that caused your break up, your ex will look at you with a newfound respect.
It's not against all odds to get your ex back...there may be a few things against you, but there are also quite a few in your favor. With these 3 tips, and a hearty helping of self-motivation, you have an excellent shot at fixing your relationship and getting your ex back.
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