It's no surprise that both genders rely on lying
to some extent. They just do it differently and
sometimes for different reasons.
All humans, especially women say they want their
partner to be honest. Is this the truth? Can you
keep a relationship up and running if you are
telling the truth all the time?
Imagine that you just have brought your
girlfriend at your home, to spend the night
together for the first time. You have made a
great effort to arrange and clean your home and
especially the bedroom. You are proud about this
and ask your partner what she believes about your
home.
She responds "It is a little old fashioned... and
something smells bad in here". Ups! Ok.
You two pass through this awkward moment, then
you start kissing each other, but you make a joke
about... the size of your penis, and instead to
hear the most used reply: "hey, relax, size
really doesn't matter", she tells you that her ex
was quite huge.
Ups... Not again. :)
If she were to say just two little lies
everything could be great, but now...
The truth is, telling a few lies can be one of
the best ways to keep your relationship healthy.
So if you want to keep her happy and keep getting
laid, you're going to have to learn how to lie -
and lie convincingly. The trick is figuring out
what she wants to hear.
1. Never mention your sexual past... especially
if it was a good one. If your girlfriend asks you
what it was like or how good your ex was, you can
tell a lie if you have to. Say it wasn't all that
good. Don't ever mention her. Even if what you're
saying is uncomplimentary, it will still have a
negative effect. You bringing her up hints that
she's still on your mind.
2. When it comes about how she looks, if you
picked her to be your partner, you have to make
her feel that she is a WOMAN. Every woman has
something beautiful, something sexy and
attractive, and if you make her know that you
find her attractive she will be more confident,
wilder and more passionate. But when she asks you
about something you don't really like at her look,
never but never tell her your true opinion. Just
say that it is OK and pass over the moment. If
you are telling her that you don't like something
at her, she will feel frustrated and become more
inhibited.
3. Everybody knows that women have more
sensibility than men. So pay attention to her
sensibility and don't make bad jokes about other
people (especially her family) or let her know
when you are up to take the cat and throw it out
through the window. She will find you
insensitive and you will lose points. Use your
common sense and try not to hurt your woman’s
feelings even if you have to say a little lie
from time to time.
Overall, lying is a bad thing to do. But when it
comes to women, you really have no choice.
The little white lies don't hurt anyone and are
only meant as reassurance every now and then
It's therefore okay to tell a person what they
want to hear.
